Three incredulous ways to not get influenced negatively by anyone

I am in possession of myself!!

People have asked me why here and not there? Why a doctor and not someone else? “I have always answered everything that I have been asked.” So, this is the answer. If I choose not to answer is also an answer. They do not like it, its an unconventional, non understanding retort from my side because someone I am, and if I am good at it, I won’t be allowed because of their personal disgraceful belief system about me, but if I allow them to say that am no good, I’ll be at their mercy, though this they would like. What if I make a comeback? Many make it after trying several times but they will say we shall not cooperate at all and then one day would come when all do. (Here I am speaking about my 22 years of life lived as a student and then a doctor who became an expert in the field)

Sometimes besides all good efforts and intentions, results are not good and we lose in a fraction of a second just by getting influenced negatively. We could have been positive and proactive but people do not like it. They want to disbalance our efforts. They try the most obscene manner to derail us from achieving our goals to gain their ends, through our means. If its me who worked hard, they want to say it will not be paid for. If I don’t work hard, they make my life miserable by saying that I am…