People are fond of asking and calculating others, when asked they keep mum

They call it freedom!!!

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I call them 2-faced personalities, sometimes 5-faced. But they will not understand because this is how they are brought up in their land. If they have queries, first they manipulate, then they start interfering so that they can climb the ladder of success on your pretext, and then goes….Who Are You? I am more talented and more moral person above all!! So to these God’s, you wanted to know in the first place my reasons for success, it always is self sabotaging for the goal of mine. Sometimes you give it all, some days its not good. But goal is to have a clarity not confusion despite life and death. Never ever to figure out things like…

1. Why doesn’t she get married?
2. What is her financial status?
3. Why did she divorce him?
4. She is not a good girl.
5. She is very low standard and her concepts are not up to the mark.
6. She seems very intelligent, got good marks, works hard, let me think if she is lucrative to me or else I will derail her.
7. You know he is not a good guy, he did this to some other girl, that is the reason why I want to work somewhere else. Why are you still continuing?
8. Let’s rag him…or her
9. She wants friends and attention? Certainly a bad character!!
10. Why is she happy?
11. What is her secret of success?
12. Does she have or had a boyfriend? errr……

Sir/madam today these are the important things to do, I can manage with this much. Can you tell me if (senior or junior) those ideas are brought to action? What happened in the meeting?

MUM

I know now what success is….I failed in life therefore I am the best and continue to be successful?

No people…..that’s not success. Try to introspect these successful notions as follows:

1. The day seems pleasant, today I have time to complete Project sub part 1, and can further improve my to do list.
2. I got up at 4.30 am, stupendous, the whole day in hand, let me start with Project 2, 3, and 4 simultaneously, begin with scoping. I can cook a lavish meal too.
3. I messed up today, got up so late….phew, I can skip breakfast for it.
4. Today I feel weak ma, I want sometime with you, we can honor each other some time….maybe I was hypoglycemic, it would have been good if you were with me today, both of us enjoying a vermicelli upma!!
5. A friend needs help with his project, I can help him on a Sunday? But he wants me to do all…….a number 6 in the previous list of losers.
6. I will do anyways, how does it matter, he is a junior colleague. I know how to win friends.
7. My personal life? I can share if you want, but that has never defined anyone ever in history. It has a father, mother, sister, brother, a broken marriage, a few nasty friends, television, movies, shopping, travelling, love and care, a broken marriage, despite it…. so just shut up these voices, these culprits who burn innocent girls calling them bitches because they condescended their outlook in life?

Sometimes you have to deal with the shamelessness of people around you when we go buy things, ask them to assist in chores, wherever you go you meet them. There can be no solace. And why do you need solace, when you desire success!!

Success in writing that book or making love to your husband or loving your parents, caring for your siblings, excel in treating your patients, keeping abreast with what is latest in your field, guiding people who want your help. And be smiling and calm always!!