Writing develops us into a character that solves most of the life’s challenges

Right thinking

Everybody around me is struggling. All have taken up challenges in their life. Some are financially broke while others do not get time to upgrade their skills. People are also confused how to develop their spirituality and many want a quality lifestyle without drinking and smoking. And me, after battling multitudes, I feel a bit more settled and protected in life. I am still challenged but now I am used to it. I can handle myself with a better control over my thoughts to handle anything and stick to my plans for myself.

Humans are social animals so the journey is difficult for all of us, let us move along to reach somewhere.

Travelling alone versus with a crowd, made me choose the crowd related to my professional success. I was not liked initially, and then suddenly I faced brutal rivalries, now some peace with many efforts of mine and by reading a lot of writers like John Westenberg, Benjamin P Hardy, Nick Wignall; many more of them, on Medium, I could contemplate my situation and improve it by taking my own responsibility. I started writing but not regularly. It makes me a part of someplace, it gives me self-expression, it organizes my thoughts and it helps me recover from biting loneliness, coldness, makes me bold enough to fight all odds and take up everyday challenges for my career as a doctor.

Through writing I discovered myself, and I found that reading and writing are the greatest talent a human being can ever possess. Anyone can do it. It has huge benefits beyond just making money.

Collective thinking, changing minds, following great minds, all that we do and like about each other builds our psyche in a positive sense.

As an example, many families want their little ones to go to school and not raise them alone. We all know that no man can live as an island. We need positively influencing writers, schools, sports centers, workspaces to collectively find our own tribe.

Once the basic thinking is formulated by the age 25–26 years, then there is no looking back, one can become the guiding light through our experiences and every day’s hard work, cognition, patience and so on.

What writing did for me can also create you. I feel a lot better now because my mindset is peaceful. Everyday seems like a thanksgiving due to writing. So here I enlist some benefits writing has to take up life’s challenges:

1. It builds your character- We cannot be comfortable without building our character. There should be you having an opinion of yourself and then you fight for it. Acting against your character creates conflict. And this is for everyone, really even for those who have slept with many people. Even the most frivolous person on Earth has a character. Minding your own business is a value, but a character driven person sticks to it. Not to humiliate other people is a value but a character driven person follows this dictum effortlessly. If someone likes friends then upholding that friendship and doing them favors is a good character. You cannot just enumerate your friends, whoever comes to you, any friend, should feel settled and abundant because of you. It does not come from money but character. By writing the troubles of my mind, I discovered how much patience I have built for myself, how bold I have become. I feel I lived a life of character. It is my greatest accomplishment even if there are people who have resorted to bigotry, rivalry, I could easily write and forget or may be forgive them. I have become bare to face the world online but yet I do have character.
2. You will have a very structured and peaceful life- We do what we think. It helps me do the right thinking. When I do my mind-mapping, I feel more objective and structured in leading my life. I become limited. I go to work and comeback to read and write. Writing enhanced my potential to do well with patients, teaching and learning. It helped me specialize and it got me ideas to teach well, a quite time, peaceful time writing made me low-key, yet I am loving it. I am more complete, I am structured. I could be boring but for me, I am accomplished. I am at peace with myself.
3. You will handle sudden unforeseen circumstances with more grit- A sudden bad news that someone at home got beaten up, or your new boss wants to fire you or you made a huge mistake at workplace, can all be handled with writing. You will have enough to defend and offend as required through writing. Writing has direct impact on your emotions, when no one likes you, you develop self-love, and that is enough reason to live for those who have their legs being pulled in all directions by all kinds of people. Writing helps disseminate your troubles to a virtual person, and then this person (your mind) finds solutions that can never be wrong, because you took the responsibility that you were facing the trouble in the first place, you looked for acknowledgement and help, and guess what, the solution also came up from within. Remember, it was a civilization that got created through writing. I feel proud of people who keep writing at least one paragraph to introspect and then judge how beautifully they solved all their troubles without messing up or becoming a whining child.
4. Collective of writers solve each other- One tribe that I belong to is also the self-help writers. They write to motivate, instigate, self-expression, betterment of masses. Writing helps us socially and mentally. We may not talk to each other nor start gossiping about what she did or I did. We understand, and read each other. We correct ourselves, come-up with ideas and continue doing the good work by reading, writing and influencing for the better. Many agonies subside, loads of pressure gets relieved and we stand straight, upfront for any challenge.

So keep writing is my thought for the day. It could be off and on or regular. However it suits you offline may be, do write and live a better developed life through right thinking that helps in becoming what you set out to.