General rules to live with wisdom and fulfillment

Auto-suggestions for self-worth are more important than winning accolades

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My mind is reverberating with thoughts again. As a usual practice, I shall not be precarious in iterating them. Let me put a structure to my thinking and help people who read further, understand some tested solutions helping us to gain wisdom with every opportunity. Even if we do nothing, every moment in life is crucial because time is a God-gifted opportunity in disguise to live, mostly the way we want to.

1. Mother someone but not everyone- Do not mentor everyone who comes in life. Look for people who can take it, those who support you. Mother your friends and not the whole lot of community of your people. Those in need of your help, love and affection will reach out to you. They will act like your children and hope that you mother them with your solutions or companionship. I need my mother to bestow her love upon me. But not many would like to be mothered by her all the time. Only her daughter feels so. Its a beautiful privilege to be a mother. You could be for your siblings or work team or a special friend but then don’t just do it for everyone because it is considered a superiority complex. People feel that this mother (person) always knows it all and is ready to guide us always. People also want to go through motherhood, outside the protection of their…